Talking about serious illness

After being diagnosed with a serious illness, it can be very difficult to talk about what is happening and how you feel.

Many people find it awkward, uncomfortable or even painful to talk about their illness with family and friends. Speaking with nurses, doctors and other professionals can also feel difficult.

How this information can help

This section offers simple advice to help you feel more comfortable asking about the things you want and need to know.

It may also help you talk about what you are feeling, if you want to.

Understanding other people’s reactions

Your friends, family, doctors and nurses may also find it difficult to talk about your illness. This can happen even when they care about you and want to support you.

This information can help you understand why conversations may feel awkward and how you can make them easier.

This section aims to help you

  • understand common reactions to being told you have a serious illness
  • understand what your friends and family may be feeling
  • find a practical approach to help you talk about your illness more freely and easily

Having these conversations can help you get the emotional support you need.